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Dr. Elia GourgourisDr. Elia Gourgouris is a nationally known speaker, relationship coach, and the president of LDSCoaching.com. With over 20 years of experience, he has inspired thousands of individuals and couples to find greater happiness and fulfillment, both in their careers and their personal lives. He holds a degree from UCLA and a Ph.D. in psychology. Dr. Gourgouris speaks to groups around the country regarding women’s issues, self esteem, communications skills, and relationships. He is also a favorite presenter at both BYU and BYU-ID Education Weeks, and Time Out for Women conferences. He is the author of “DTR: What You Need to Know Before You Get Married” and he has an upcoming CD entitled “The Multi-Platinum Marriage: Going from Just Surviving to Thriving!” He and his wife, Sona, live near Boulder, Colorado, with their children.


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    Dr. Elia appears on Studio5

    Dr. Elia made an appearance on Studio5, broadcast by KSL channel 5 in Salt Lake City. In the show he discusses his CD and upcoming book “The Multiplatinum Marriage: going from surviving to thriving”. Permission to duplicate this segment has been obtained.


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    Dr. Elia makes his second appearance on “The Home Team” with Julie Hanks

    After his fist appearance on the show in July of 2008, Dr. Elia was invited back to talk in more detail about relationships. KJZZ in Salt Lake City aired the second show on October 20, 2008. AskDrElia.com was able to obtain permission to show you the clip here. Thanks KJZZ!
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    Dr. Elia is interviewed on The Home Team with Julie Hanks

    Dr. Elia was interviewed by Julie Hanks on “The Home Team”, airing on KJZZ TV in Salt Lake City. The show was broadcast on July 21, 2008. AskDrElia.com was able to obtain permission to show you the clip here. Thanks KJZZ!